are the ways in which you are withholding love + truth from your children, husbands, lovers, friends, clients.
You’ve heard me say that when you heal yourself, you heal those around you right?
The same is true for self punishment. For not living your potential. For being indecisive. For choosing comfort.
Here are some of the ways that I have held myself back from greatness (and you’ve probably done the same)
1- You “try”. Â <– the ultimate non-committal word. I’ll try to be there. I’ll try to finish the project.
What you’re really saying here is (1) I don’t think I can  (2) I don’t want to but I don’t want you to be dislike me (3) I don’t fucking know what I want anymore because I am so disconnected from myself
DECIDE. Either way. Yes or no. Just DECIDE. Preferably the choice that scares you the most (it’s usually the “right” one).
2- You’re deep into your delusions. I can’t have this. I can’t do that. No one can have their cake and eat it too right? You’re delusional about what’s possible and your holding tightly to the ideas of this constrictive matrix that we live in (I was there too! no shame!)
But it’s time to release the grip, your knuckles are white!
It’s bullshit all of it. Can you see that? Can you find one person that has what you want? That’s already created the life you desire? Yep, it’s possible.
And believe this… if it’s in your heart… it’s SO fucking possible. In fact it was MEANT for you to achieve.
3- You’re playing REALLY small. I don’t want to spend the money. I don’t want to take the risk. What if .. what if.. what if… FEAR FEAR FEAR….ahhhhh
Listen I don’t expect you to go through life being completely fearless (although we can take a look at those fear gates in your spleen). BUT fear will absolutely hold you back from your next level in life.
Do you think I was scared spending $10,000 on my first coach? HELL FUCKING YES! Do I regret it? HELL FUCKING NO.
Do you think I was scared quitting my job and starting a business ? OMG … I was SHAKING!
But I know that fear is purely a byproduct of disconnection + shame.
A disconnection and a loneliness that can only be felt when we forget our true nature + power. And shame that has been conditioned within us to play small. stay comfy, don’t get hurt, I mean you don’t want to fail right?!
All of that ↑ is complete and utter bullshit. All of it.
Illusions.
1, 2, or 3. Which do you resonate with the most?
Where do you need to spend your energy breaking free from?
Fear, indecision, societal constructs?
Ready to break free? To see your life in a whole new way? No create a whole new way of being?
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xo
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