I spent the morning journaling. Like 1.5 hours of it. Because I knew there was something brewing and dying to come up. And it was a shit storm ((because there’s always more work to do! But it creates MORE magic!)).
Here’s what came up… this HUGE mistake that I was making. That my clients make and that I would bet 8/10 of you reading this right now are guilty of as well.
Are you ready for it?
You’re waiting. You’re expecting. You’re saying “when…”
You’re waiting for that lover to love you before you love yourself.
You’re expecting that a hot toned ass will make you feel pretty, and love yourself.
You’re saying “When I make $10,000 I will be happy and love myself.”
I’m going to call BIG FAT BULLSHIT on all of the above.
Not only is it complete BS but it’s actually really fucking wrong and a huge mistake so many people make when manifesting (or just living and breathing).
The Universe can only meet you halfway with something magical if it’s at the same vibration that you are at. Meaning, if you don’t see your worth and value… what you attract won’t either.
I realized in my journaling that I really fucking love myself.. I could scream it from the rooftops (or on Oprah’s couch). It took work to get there, debt, pain, pushing, and pulling, time, but now that I am here the rewards are simply magical.
Imagine this… you are able to forgive yourself, accept yourself, and love yourself NO MATTER WHAT. Like un-fucking-conditionally.
What kind of a life do you think THAT creates????
A BOMB-ASS one. (Am I allowed to say bomb in an e-mail? EEK….we’ll find out.)
Anyway, ladies and gents, my point here is this… you need to love YOU first. First and foremost. Remember when the flight attendant tells you to put your oxygen mask on you first? Yeah.. I know you are already on your second glass on wine (you know who you are)… but you’ve heard it at least once. That’s because it’s imperative to take care of YOU before others. You can’t give out what you don’t have. Plain and simple.
You also can’t attract from a place of lack, unworthiness, unlovableness, and not good enoughness.
So now you’re saying… OK Danna I get it. But how can I love myself more?
Dontcha worry child… I did a live this morning in my High Vibe Spiritual Tribe group on FB (if you’re not already in it… WHY????!!) with all the juicy details on increasing your self love. It’s a REALLY good one.
Check it out here: https://youtu.be/3YJRTZ31ugk
And on that note… remember … you create your life 100% of the time. Do the work and make sure you create what you actually want!