Here’s how it typically goes…
We have a problem (I am broke, I am overweight, I am lonely)
And we try to push. PUSH as far away from the problem as humanly possible. Coming up with all of the solutions, all of the answers, or just worrying about it all the time. (so not really getting anywhere)
How can I get away from the discomfort of THIS thing that I created? (remember, we are all creators).
But what if all of that ↑ pushing away from only brought it closer? What if it’s the exact opposite of what you REALLY need?
What you really need to do in any problematic situation is ACCEPT it and ALLOW it to exist. I mean it already does right?
So stop denying the power you’ve given it and start looking at what it’s trying to tell you.
Yes the messenger always has a message (whether a fun one or not).
Accept it.
Allow it.
Surrender to it.
At least for a moment, a minute, a day.
You don’t have to stay here.
But you will continue to perpetuate the same if you don’t take the actual time to
Vibe with it.
Resonate with it.
Be with it.
Learn from it.
Think of it this way. You get into an argument with your friend. You both scream and yell and you push her away (and the pain) and proclaim that you are DONE with it all. All her bullshit.
But you damn well know it’s been keeping you up at night.
Because you love her. And miss her.
And well, it takes two baby.
So you call her.
And you let her talk. You stay quiet and she releases it all.
You acknowledge she’s right.
You accept your part in it.
Your surrender to the situation has allowed the energy to neutralize and transmute into something higher ((love)).
This. Works. Everywhere.
Try allowing. And learning.
Resonating. And healing.
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xo.
d.