Being a mom is one of the hardest things I have EVER had to do.
It is humbling. Every single day. There are tears and there are tantrums, and that’s just ME! hahaha
Through my personal development work + through the work I do with clients, I have come to understand some fundamental points about parenting.
1. Our children come with their own itinerary. Sure they are born all cute and sweet and mostly un-conditioned. But they are their own people, with a purpose, with a plan. And we need to honor that. They are who they are for a reason. Human Design + the Akashic Records have been great in helping me identify who my children really are. They are not you so stop projecting your own childhood on to them.
2. Our shadows affect our children. Remember from yesterday? Your subconscious mind creates up to 90% of your reality. You tend to make decisions from your subconscious (meaning limitations, old beliefs, and stories.) You know that moment when you’re screaming your face off and you realize you ARE your mother? And then you shake in disgust?! Yeah… me either 😉
Working with + through your shadow lightens your load. You become conscious of how you are behaving and why. You are able to change your patterns. And cultivate more loving relationships with your children (and yourself).
3. We may be responsible for creating our own children’s shadows. Yeahhhh this is the one I HATE to think about. But it’s true. And it’s CRUCIAL to become aware of it. What are you doing or saying, how are you acting? And what message is that sending to your child? Again, look at your own shadows and ENSURE you are not repeating any of these patterns and creating similar or POLAR opposite limitations for your children. Awareness.
Before you freak out and question all the years you’ve been a parent… let me share this quote I saw on insta a while back. I am paraphrasing: “You want to fuck your kids up at least a little to make them funny later in life.”
No one is perfect. We are HUMAN. We make mistakes! I am DEFINITELY not perfect. And if you could see into my house you would hear yelling, crying, and arguing. Sometimes I slip into my old habits. Other times I have intelligent discussions with them about their emotions. The goal is NOT perfection. The goal is to try your best each day. And acknowledge that each day IS different. AWARENESS. Become self aware enough to point out your imperfections. Apologize when necessary. And do your shadow work!
P.S. – SHADOW IS OPEN + IT ROCKS!
Want to master your subconscious mind? Your triggers? Your self-defeating patterns?
Want to learn how to uncover the shadows that keep you stuck, blind, making the same shitty choices over and over again?
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Here is what it is, exactly:
– 4 weeks of training on the subconscious mind and it’s shadow. Including: shame, guilt, projections, triggers, limiting beliefs, and the low vibe archetypes taking over your mind.
– 4 weeks of group coaching. On the training calls we will also have a chance for me to coach you through that week’s assignment, obstacles, or anything else that comes up.
– Exercises, processes, meditations, EFT videos, and more to support you on this journey.
– A private community for discussions, support, and high vibe collaborations.
– Some pretty amazing bonuses:
(2) 30 minute private sessions with me to identify where to start and monitor your progress.
A basic assessment of your human design chart for ultimate life fulfillment ((FIRST 5 PEOPLE THAT SIGN UP ONLY!))
PLUS free access to the Soul Warriors VIP group for 2 months!
Pretty great right?
Go here and sign up, we start August 23rd: http://www.dannayahav.com/shadow-course/
When you’re an ACTION TAKER, you get the support that you need. And with that you continuously learn, better yourself, and increase the fulfillment of your life.
I can’t wait to support you! Say YES! Message me if you have questions.